I am praying for everyone to get things in order in their own lives.
I don't like to judge and I don't keep a record but my advice is if it is too much for you to carry then you have to follow your gut and not do it.(Someone please DRILL this into my brain, or rewire it!)
And, let's not forget that if you are a person that expects a lot from others all of the time, then you should really think about how they feel and stop taking advantage. It will catch up to you one day.
I have helped and helped and I've been helped and I am so appreciative about that. I want to pay it forward, but I just can't do that anymore, I have to try and put myself and my family first a while.